Do we attack friends, or enemies? Enemies, of course. So when we attack people we are treating them like enemies, and we can't expect them to treat us back like friends. If we want others to treat us like friends, we have to stop attacking them, even if they attack us first. (This may not apply to cases in which our attackers are truly intending to injure or kill us.)

In recent years, kids have found another way to pick on each other: the Internet. This is being called “cyberbullying.”

It is natural to get upset when other kids write terrible things about you, either to you or about you, in emails, IMs (Instant Messages) and websites or blogs. Your parents may also get upset if they discover you are a victim of cyberbullying. Parents often want the school to handle the problem. Sometimes parents even get the police or the FBI involved.

Do you want to enjoy playing sports with other kids? Do you want them to like and respect you? Do you want them to choose you to be on their team? And do you want to enjoy playing even when you lose the game? Then it is important to know how to be a “good sport” and avoid being a “sore loser”.

Virtually no one who begins a family is psychologically prepared for the difficulty in store for them. Children devise endless ways to drive their parents crazy. No one loves children and does as much for them as their parents. Yet children treat their parents worse than they treat anyone else. And the more we do for them, the less they appreciate it. Instead of thanking us for our devotion and sacrifice, they only get mad when we don't give them what they want. Most parents look forward to going to work as a vacation from the kids.

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Reducing Sibling Rivalry

The single most common and annoying family problem is sibling rivalry. The Biblical story of murder between the world's first siblings, Cain and Abel, indicates that the problem is as old as Civilization. It still remains one of the most stubborn of all problems, baffling even most therapists. 

Is your child being bullied in school? Are you angry because the school is failing to make the bullying stop? Or are you angry because the school is accusing your child of being a bully?

If you have found that everything you and your school are doing to make bullying stop isn’t working, you have come to the right place! Bullies to Buddies™ has materials and services that really work!

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